Incontinence Advice

Identifying incontinence: the signs that indicate bladder weakness

We explain to you what indicates that you or someone else is incontinent. You will also learn more about how you can discuss the delicate issue of incontinence with those affected and how you can support them. You can also purchase pads for incontinence from our website to help them manage their symptoms.

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General signs, causes and symptoms of urinary incontinence

 

Incontinence, also commonly referred to as bladder weakness, comes in many forms and has many causes. For many people with incontinence, the condition negatively affects their self esteem and leads to social withdrawal.1 As an extremely intimate issue, it is understandable that people feel uncomfortable discussing the signs of incontinence among their wider circle of friends. And shame often inhibits people from seeking out medical help when the first symptoms of urinary incontinence develop. Those affected by incontinence are definitely not alone: Estimates indicate that about 9 million people currently have the same questions about incontinence.

It is possible to have an active and carefree life with incontinence. There are lifestyle changes, medications, pelvic floor exercises and quality products that can all help. But first, it is important to identify the symptoms and then have an open discussion about the condition, whether with a trusted person or your physician.

Let’s look at the signs that indicate bladder weakness and how you can support someone living with incontinence.


Definition: What is incontinence?

 

Urinary incontinence refers to any involuntary loss of urine, whether it’s just a few drops or larger volumes.
The term ‘incontinence’ comes from the Latin word ‘incontinens’ and means ‘not holding together’. Bladder weakness, as incontinence is commonly known as, can develop in people of any age and gender, but is seen most commonly in people aged 65 and above. Women are more often affected by urinary incontinence than men. For example, stress incontinence, when urine leaks out with physical exertion, affects about three times as many women in Germany as men. Pregnancy can also trigger temporary or long-term bladder weakness. As well as urinary incontinence, there is also faecal incontinence. This is less common and typically occurs in advanced age. We have an article dedicated to urge incontinence. Read it >>

Am I incontinent?

 

‘You have a bladder the size of a thimble’: expressions like this are often used to tease friends and acquaintances who are always going to the toilet. But this is not necessarily a sign of bladder weakness. People who drink lots of fluids over the day and therefore have to go to the toilet often are not incontinent.

But do you involuntarily release urine when you cough, sneeze or lift a heavy object, for example? Do you often have such a strong urge to urinate that sometimes you don’t make it to the toilet in time? Or do you wake up sometimes in the mornings and notice that the bed is wet? Then you could be experiencing some of the common symptoms of bladder weakness.





When and how much urine you lose may indicate what type of incontinence you have and how it can be treated.




The following types of incontinence are common:



  • Stress incontinenceThis type of incontinence develops if the pelvic floor muscles and/or the urethral sphincter muscles are damaged. Urine leaks out if you physically exert yourself. Triggers include lifting heavy objects or coughing, sneezing or laughing. Women are affected more often than men.



  • Overflow incontinence (incontinence with chronic urinary retention) If the bladder cannot be emptied completely, this is called overflow incontinence. The urethra -, the tube that transports the urine -, is either constricted by a blockage and/or the bladder muscles are weakened. Overflow incontinence is particularly common in older men. The most frequence cause is that the urethra is blocked by an enlarged prostate.



  • Urge incontinence: This form of incontinence is caused by bladder muscles that are either overactive or underactive. The urge to urinate is then abruptly triggered, even if the bladder is not full. Initially, the urine can often still be retained but a deterioration leads to uncontrolled loss of urine.



  • Reflex incontinence: This type of incontinence happens due to a sudden spasm of the bladder's detrusor muscle. This can be the result of problems with the nervous system such as nerve damage, for instance, in the spinal cord or brain, lead to involuntary loss of urine.



  • Extraurethral incontinence: This is sudden or constant loss of urine, for example, through fistulae caused by inflammation, trauma or cancer, or congenital anomalies. Fistulae are small passageways that can develop inside the body. If a fistula joins the bladder to the vagina or the rectum, urine dribbles through the fistula to the outside of the body.



  • Mixed forms can also occur with the most common combination being a mixture of urge and stress incontinence.



  • Temporary incontinence: After pregnancy or prostate surgery, many people experience temporary involuntary loss of urine. The symptoms often disappear completely.



  • Faecal incontinence: A less common form of incontinence. Faecal incontinence means the involuntary passing of gas, liquid and/or solid stools.7


Contact a trusted physician if you identify that you have signs of bladder weakness. Therapeutic treatments can be very successful, particularly with less severe incontinence.


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Identifying & helping with incontinence

 

Incontinence is a subject people can find it hard to talk about – regardless of whether you are affected yourself or you suspect that someone else is suffering from incontinence. But talking about incontinence can be very helpful and improve the quality of life of those affected enormously.6


If you are reading this, then it is likely you suspect someone in your family or circle of friends that you suspect has incontinence. Below are the symptoms to look out for when you think someone may be incontinent.

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Signs that a person is affected by incontinence


Usually there are a number of indications that suggest that someone is experiencing bladder weakness. The more of these signs that apply, the more certain you can be that the person is affected by incontinence.



  • Smell of urine, either on the person themselves or in their home or apartment

  • A previously active person withdraws more and more and only leaves the house for short periods

  • A toilet must always be close by and excursions or activities are only undertaken if it is certain that there is a toilet nearby

  • Frequent changes of clothing

  • Spots on clothing or seats

  • Gatherings are kept as short as possible

  • You find pantyliners in the bathroom although the person who is possibly affected is unlikely to have had a period for a long time or is male

  • The person drinks remarkably little8

Here are some helpful tips that can help you to support someone live more carefree and actively with incontinence.

What can you do to help someone with incontinence?




The most important thing first: act! Even if it is uncomfortable at first, you have the opportunity to greatly improve the person's quality of life. Many people, particularly much older people, do not know that a good and active life with incontinence is possible thanks to modern products and treatment options.




How you go about this depends very much on your relationship with the affected person. An open conversation is often the first step. There may also naturally be cases when you have to proceed more cautiously and you cannot discuss the subject of incontinence directly. We prepeared an useful article with "How To Maintain Good Hygiene For Someone You Care For"




We have collected some suggestions for this not so easy situation.

 

 

Possible icebreakers for talking about incontinence:

How you can help someone with incontinence

And finally the most important: be brave! With the help of modern medicine, lifestyle changes and reliable products, many people with incontinence can live and enjoy their life without major restrictions.

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